Who really is that Person in Bed Next to You?
Who Really is that Person in Bed Next to You?
Hello Everyone:
For the month of August, I thought we’d look at relationships. For those of you that are or have been in an intimate relationship with someone, you probably at some time or another have complained to someone about your loved one. Maybe it was that the person was withholding, critical, demanding, angry, absent, drank too much, whatever. You know what your complaints are and they are probably quite familiar. You may also be quite certain that you know your spouse, girlfriend or boyfriend well enough to know who they truly are. This week’s podcast addresses this very issue. You may think you know who your loved one is, but I can guarantee that in part, who your loved one is, is the person you created them to be. You have projected aspects of yourself, your parents, and your life experiences onto them. We do this because it is easier to work through our own issues when they are mirrored back to us from someone else.
So next time you look into the eyes of someone you love, ask yourself these questions. What aspects of myself do I see in the person I love? What dynamics have I created in this relationship in order to work through these unresolved issues and fears? Am I willing to take full responsibility for creating the very things I complain about? These questions will be addressed throughout the month as we begin to explore the world of relationships. Feel free to get the audio perspective and listen to the podcast now!
What are your thoughts on this subject?
We want to know because….Your life matters!
Take care and till next time,
Julie
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