http://www.julieorlov.com/blog/2007/07/28/giving-yourself-time-to-grieve/ Create the Life You Choose and Choose the Life You Create Thu, 20 Nov 2008 22:52:55 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.1.3 http://www.julieorlov.com/blog/2007/07/28/giving-yourself-time-to-grieve/#comment-5 Alice Reyes Thu, 02 Aug 2007 21:57:54 +0000 http://www.julieorlov.com/blog/2007/07/28/giving-yourself-time-to-grieve/#comment-5 It was important to me the 14 years my husband was dealing with his illness that he had great memories of family,hobbies,travel, food. What ever he could image we would do with the limitations his illness put on him. He knew he was loved and on the last day before he entered the hospital because he could no longer keep down food, he attended his first car show with his son who entered his 1970 red El Camino . He won his division. 3 weeks later he passed away with peace in his heart. Because I knew I was able to help him with this peace and found comfort with my family I was able to work the next week of his service. I'm now back in school to obtain a degree in psychology. I had fourteen years to make his life happy but 37 years of being married to a great guy who taught his family how to enjoy life but also to prepare themselves for the end of life with peace in their heart. It was important to me the 14 years my husband was dealing with his illness that he had great memories of family,hobbies,travel, food. What ever he could image we would do with the limitations his illness put on him. He knew he was loved and on the last day before he entered the hospital because he could no longer keep down food, he attended his first car show with his son who entered his 1970 red El Camino . He won his division. 3 weeks later he passed away with peace in his heart. Because I knew I was able to help him with this peace and found comfort with my family I was able to work the next week of his service. I’m now back in school to obtain a degree in psychology. I had fourteen years to make his life happy but 37 years of being married to a great guy who taught his family how to enjoy life but also to prepare themselves for the end of life with peace in their heart.

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